THROUGH THE EYES OF LOVE

GREATER LOVE HAS NO ONE THAN THIS, THAT SOMEONE WILL LAY DOWN THEIR LIFE FOR THEIR FRIENDS- JOHN 15: 13

When I was a kid going to children's services at church, we often heard about how much Jesus loves us. We sang songs like "Jesus loves me, yes I know, for the Bible tells me so." It's such a sweet song, and I still enjoy it today. But back then, while we sang along and enjoyed the services, I didn't really get the depth of that love. How could I believe that someone I couldn’t see loved me enough to die for me? And how was I supposed to respond to that love? I just kept singing.

As I grew older, I tried to understand, but it still felt confusing. What kind of love is it that leads someone to die for another? It seemed almost crazy. They talked a lot about grace and mercy, about how we could wander away and still come back to God, whom many refer to as the Father. Still didnt make sense but I kept listening and praying.

Then I fell in love—like, really in love. That's when I started to see some of the wildness of love up close. I loved this person wholeheartedly, and even when they broke my heart, I still longed for them. Despite the hurtful things they did, I found myself praying for their happiness. My heart ached, and I felt like I couldn’t breathe sometimes, yet I craved their presence. They made me feel so many things—both joy and pain. It’s a cycle that I think a lot of people go through, and I wondered if those who stick around in difficult relationships are just struggling with self-worth or feeling unloved. Why would anyone choose to endure that?

But the answer was clear: I was simply in love, and in those moments, nothing else mattered more than being with my beloved. If only they could see what I saw, perhaps they would understand the lengths love can drive you to.

Then, I thought about Christ’s love for us. Even though we hurt Him, He continues to love us. He loved us before we were even born. That reminded me of the bond between a mother and her child. Recently, I asked a coworker why parents love their kids so much. How does that connection work? I’ve seen kids be rude to their parents, yet those parents keep loving them. They awaited their child’s birth, enduring pain because of the love they already felt. It made me wonder about my own parents. Why do they still love me, especially when I know I haven’t always been the best? They work hard to make me happy, and it all boils down to love.

When I reflected on these thoughts, the concept of grace became clearer. Grace is that unmerited favor—something we don’t earn but receive freely. It’s the love that doesn’t keep track of wrongs, that forgives time and again, and that invites us back into the fold no matter how far we’ve strayed. Just like the parents who love their children despite the mistakes they make, God’s love is unconditional and everlasting.

And i thought about Jesus dying for us, it’s the ultimate act of love—the kind that transcends our understanding. He knew we would falter and fall short, yet He chose to bear the weight of our sins. It’s almost incomprehensible how one person’s sacrifice could open the door for so many to experience this profound love. It’s a love that says, “You are worthy, just as you are,” even when we often feel lost or unworthy.

Through the lens of love, I see how God constantly reaches out to us, inviting us into a relationship where we can be known and loved deeply. Even in our darkest moments, His love shines through, reminding us that we are never alone. It’s a love that wraps around us like a warm hug, offering comfort when we need it most.

So, I am grateful that God sees through the eyes of love. He sees the potential in us, the beauty even in our brokenness, and the light that can shine through the cracks. Without His grace, I would be lost, we would all be lost, and wandering aimlessly in search of fulfillment and meaning. But with His love, I am reminded that I am cherished, accepted, and worthy of a second chance. 

Where would I be if not for grace? It’s a question that humbles me and fills me with gratitude every single day. I know now that love is not just a feeling; it’s an action, a choice, and a continuous journey. And I choose to walk in that love, sharing it with others and allowing it to transform my heart, just as it has transformed my life.

So in this season, a time of renewal and resurrection, let us remember the incredible sacrifice made out of love. Jesus dying on that cross.Let us celebrate the promise of new beginnings and the grace that covers us all. May we embrace the joy of His resurrection and carry that love into the world, sharing it with others and reflecting the light that has been bestowed upon us. This Easter, let’s rejoice in the truth that love conquers all, and through grace, we are forever changed.